Sunday, December 12, 2010

Synapse- A collection of my random thoughts

When Someone just wants to befriend you, there is something about you which draws that person to you..And what forms is a bond only if there is some kind of electrochemical signal like that of synapse..
I wondered how many times we all feel a surge of emotions in seeing a person..The room can be a crowded place but your eyes seem to catch a person, sometimes you feel uncomfortable in approaching that person, sometimes quite optimistic that your feelings would be mutual, sometimes not sure whether it is worth a try…sometimes you feel just let it go…
But what draws us closer to some familiar relation?? Many call it magnetism, charisma..and so on and so forth…But I feel it’s an invisible synapse..Connecting two people..At same time..And with the same force…
I feel the strongest synapse is with your folks..They may be far but you know it’s never late to feel this bond with them..That bond is two ways and it’s always a positive feedback mechanism…
I have tried establishing Synaptic relations with quite a many people in the past 26 years of my life..Well earlier few years I wasn’t so keen in realizing the bond factor..but I know people around would have been much happier to feel that I could synapse well with them given the fact that children are so damn cute…and sadly irritating too:(
Synaptic relations exist a lot between lovers…The feel, the touch, the voice , the movements of your lover makes a signal inside you and its very reflexive of you to fall in love with each and every behavioral patterns of them…I guess that’s why moving away is given a term of breaking up..the signal is sadly lost..but if it exists…it continues to signal you towards each other for the rest of your life!
Friends have lots of things to share..teach..learn, make, improve, cultivate and nurture..I always feel that there are certain relationships/friendships which are quite befitting to our needs. Some we need for fun, some for the agony aunt sake, some for sharing a game, some for talking intelligent and some for just talking utter nonsense without a care. The nature of relation is different in each case, the signal of a different physiology but the motive same..establishing a synapse!!!
So, if you feel this Synapse(sorry for using it too many times) with anyone, don’t let it go..keep it..work on it…coz forming a bond ain’t that easy in this fast paced world…
And for the cute little girl/guy in the room wanting to find the other better half…go ahead and check for that signal….They will sure exist!
Happy Synapsing!

2 comments:

ashwathi said...

wow sweety simply great a nice start must say... keep going love....

Payal Ghosh said...

Thanks babe..thanks so much i love u mwaah!